Among negative behaviors afflicting leaders, micro-management may be the most difficult to overcome. That’s because the underlying driver is fear, and the fear body has a powerful survival instinct. But it can be overcome. And it must be to lead effectively over the long term. Otherwise, team members feel devalued and disrespected. They avoid taking risk. They take out frustrations on other team members and customers. They look for new jobs. In the end, the only ones that stay around are sub-A players because A players will not allow themselves to be micro-managed.
So how do you stop micro-managing? Here are some tips:
Redefine your role. Staff for a maximum of three to five direct reports. Write your own current position description, being completely candid, which should reveal where you are micro-managing. Then draft a vision statement for how you will lead without telling anyone how to do his or her job.). Offer support. Set accountability schedules. Detach. Commit to the discipline no matter what. Remember, if it’s not working, it’s because you are not leading an “A” player or there is a breakdown in leadership.
Lead by objective. Set goals. Set and assign action steps. Clearly define expectations (who, what, when, and why…not how
Hire and retain only “A” players. They won’t allow you to micro-manage.
With every task, ask “Who else can do this?”
Take it in steps and pieces. Don’t expect to overcome your tendency to micro-manage overnight.
Distinguish between helpful and meddlesome. Err on the side of not helping, at least until you are no longer micro-managing.
Prioritize rigorously. Have no more than five priorities and don’t work outside them.
Communicate your intent to no longer micro-mange to key constituents. Describe the behaviors you’re working on. Ask for suggestions. Make a commitment. And provide a “safe space” for them top provide you feedback.
Meet frequently with your team. Daily (15 minutes) to discuss what’s up, metrics, and where stuck. Weekly (1 hour) to focus on priorities. Monthly (4 – 8 hours) to address big issues and for learning.
Practice intention. See Chapter 4 in The Source of Leadership.